Jeremiah 1:5 "Before I shaped you in the womb, I knew all about you. Before you saw the light of day, I had holy plans for you..."
Wednesday, May 16, 2012
Mommy, where did you put Julia's bones?
Mattie, out of nowhere mind you, asked me this afternoon, "Mommy, where
did you put Julia's bones?" I was certainly taken off guard by this
question! I responded, "Are you asking because people sometimes bury
people when they die and you want to know what happened to Julia's
bones?" She said, "Yes." I was not feeling quite ready to answer this
question and I certainly didn't really want to answer without talking to
Bob about it. So I told her that I wanted to talk more about it but I'd like
to wait and talk about it all together when Daddy got home. She seemed
okay with that. So after dinner, Mattie was occupied with the iPad and
so I summoned Bob to the back bedroom to tell him what Mattie asked
today. He was equally taken off guard. We decided we would wait until
Mattie brought it up again since it was close to bedtime for Mattie.
We're still not totally certain how to answer her question... we
cremated Julia and we're not sure how to explain cremation to Mattie.
But we're thinking about it and have talked through an acceptable answer
for now. Any advice is welcomed! I'll keep you posted as to how we
answered it when we finally do.
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We just explained cremation--how when a person dies their body is left on earth, but their spirit leaves, and the body is like a shell you find on the beach. Then we talk about the hope of a new body in the new heaven and new earth. So far they haven't seemed too affected by it. I think they've just been curious (we had two deaths in the family in 2011), and a straightforward answer seemed to work for them. (Anne-Marie)
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